Dialectical Behaviour Therapy

Dialectical Behaviour Therapy in Kelowna, B.C. Dialectic behavior therapy (DBT) was originally developed as a treatment for borderline personality disorder (BPD). Individuals with this disorder tend to experience their emotions as very intense and difficult to manage...

Notice the signs of anxiety

When you are feeling anxious, there are a number of symptoms that you might experience.  You may notice your heart racing, your stomach feeling like it’s tied up in knots, tingly fingers or sweaty palms or even a dry mouth or throat. You may also have noticed that...

What is Anxiety?

Anxiety can be a powerful experience that feels uncomfortable for many people. It is that “sick to the stomach, heart racing” feeling of dread you experience when you are about to step onto a stage and give a speech in front of hundreds of people, or perhaps when you...

Marriage counselling advice after an affair: Part 2

When infidelity within your marriage is exposed, it hits like cascading waves of emotional shock. Disbelief and betrayal become overwhelming. Everything you believed about yourself, your partner and your relationship is gone in one second. You watch helplessly as your...

Marriage counselling after an affair: Part 1

“The affair”  “Cheating”  “Adultery”. Theses are just a few of the names given to the devastating and life changing experience of discovering that your partner has been emotionally and or sexually involved with a third party. While affairs are complex, and each one...

Relationship Counselling for Conflict: Part 2

Relationship counselling may be necessary. At the end of the last chapter of Rick & Manda’s fight, Rick stormed out of the house after feeling accosted by Manda’s, shall we say, rather direct presentation of her complaint. Trying to simply decompress from his own...

Relationship Counselling for Conflict: Part 1

Relationship Counselling. It was the last thing she wanted to think about. The lake view out of Manda’s kitchen nook was breathtaking. The silver sunset cast a sail boat’s shadow across the lake in way that took her breath away even after all these years. The beauty...

Relationship Counselling for Conflict: Preface

Are you considering relationship counselling? The honeymoon is over and the sparkle of that perfectly choreographed wedding ceremony seems like a distant memory. It’s not that you don’t love each other any more, and in so many ways the future seems hopeful, but like a...

Emotionally Focused Therapy: Soften Conflict

Emotionally Focused Therapy. It's valuable. Think about the last conflict you had with your partner. I know, it’s not the most pleasant of topics, but like it or not it’s something we all have to face from time to time. If I asked “on a timeline, what is the most...

Appreciation: Family Therapy tips from Henry Sawatsky

Family therapy tip: Show appreciation when it's due. Wednesday morning I woke up to 6 inches of snow on my driveway. This was not in the forecast! So, instead of going to the gym I was shoveling it clear, only to have it completely covered in white 15 minutes later....

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